Having things in common with a partner like shared beliefs, hobbies is overrated.
What matters is if the invaluable things like if they are attracted to your character, do they support you, do they understand your fears, nightmares, isolation, history etc.
It has more to do with their existence than it does their essence. Existence precedes essence as Satre once said. Idc if someone isn’t into the same things I am. When someone makes it their goal to edify you beyond mere commonalities is when they are worth the time. The neophytes think their partner has to be a duplicate of them in which case just masturbate for the rest of your life. That’s why you out here relying on dating apps because you don’t know shit about life.
(via vastcool)
